y ou might like me and ask me to date. we will date for months and it then you realize that I'm too good and we get married have kids and in two years things are totally different. In a matter of months you find that I m having some extra affair so you plan to divorce me to please your boy friend. we get divorced and every thing ends with bitter memories. so its better we go for a date where you pay bill, then move to your house and have best moments with chocolate or strawberry umbrella. then next day forget everything. At the end You are happy so am I, no kids issue, eventually every one wins.... peace.