I'm going to be up front and honest...I am a woman...not a little girl. I am curvy, not hard bodied. If you are looking for s*x, go for the girls on here with pics of their flat tummies and cheesy lingerie. If you are looking for love, give us curvy girls a chance. There are so many superficial people out there and it's heartbreaking. I'm not looking for Mr. Right, I'm trying to find Mr. Right for me. I love to love. I'm not here for a good time right now. I'm not your "baby" after 45 seconds of conversation, so please refrain from terms of endearment. It's a huge turnoff. Please don't tell us ladies what we want to hear, tell us what it is you really want so we know what we are getting into instead of getting crushed. Don't be a coward...it's very unbecoming. If I give everything away now, we will have nothing to chat about. But if you would rather get to know my bra size more than me...keep looking. ;) UPDATE--Please be in the vicinity of Erie, PA or I will not respond. Also, to all of you catfish...I can spot you in a heartbeat as I was already a victim. Please speak the English language fluently, not be in the military or be allegedly "widowed", as I do not have extra money to send you as my kids use up all of my hard earned cash, so don't waste your time.