I’m an intelligent secure, successful, confident, energetic and caring man who works as an engineer. I’m recently divorced and this is my first online dating experience. I’m not looking to date or message with everyone on this site. Quite, the opposite. I’d like to meet an intelligent, caring, confident woman and get to know them a little bit online. Then meet for a face to face conversation over coffee or a bite to eat, and see where that goes. I don’t believe you can immediately fall in love through messaging, and the only way to truly get to know someone is in person, having a conversation that flows properly, reading their facial expressions and body language. Maybe I’m just old fashioned. Also, if you live far enough from 412 that I’d have to stop for a meal along the way, please don’t message me.