Along term relationship is not out of the question, but sex has to be an intricate part of it. Does it really matter, yes! imfaticly. When sex dropped off the list of things we must do, relationships die. Gardening, family, pets, hob nobbing are not replacements for intimacy. And I can't stand," I can't" You want me to paint, fix, sand, refinish, stain, clean, scrub, change oil and brakes, but you can't or won't. I beg to differ Sex is an important part of the relationship. Or you might as well hang out with the girls and gawk at young guys, cause that's not what you want, really. Has been diver, commercially. Likes photography, hiking and playing in the woods, sunbathing. Travel when the mood hits, but likes being a home body, under the sheets, talking, discussing, and cuddling, making noises, laughing, having fun. And enjoying each other