A hopeless romantic and an open book, that's me. Did not expect to be here at this point in my life being still very much deeply in love with my beautiful wife of 16 years to the very end. And as she dances with the angels, I am left with 3 young children aged between 15 and 10 years old who love their daddy to bits. I have to find that special woman. A needle in a huge pile of hay for sure, not easy to find, I know, but can you please help? She's bubbly, positive and able to come somewhere close to matching my energy (I need to warn you, I am a former International rugby star). She's NOT perfect, nobody is (but love covers all things; that is my experience). You will need to dream of a new life and maybe a new culture off the East African Coast and waking up every morning to the unforgettable breeze from the ocean wafting through our bedroom window. I'm anxiously waiting.