very laid back individual, easy to get along with, easy to talk with. After being in a few serious relationships, and on a few dates here and there, i am realizing that compatible personalities is as important if not more important than a physical attraction to me. my situation is this, single with no kids, but i'm just now rebounding from a tough year in 2008, i'm in the mist of transitioning myself into a new field of work, i am currently a student/intern. i love what i do,and the progress i've made, but still have a wayz 2 go before i get to where i want to be. and so, i say that to say this, in regards to what i'm looking for, it would be nice to meet a lady who can relate to the up's and down's of life, who is humble about their success in life, know that they are beautiful but yet have a modest personality about it. it would be nice if they had a interest in somethin more than just make up and fashion, such as, current events,politics, sports (optional). i know everybody says they dont want any drama,But let me be specific about it,You need to be more than physically single, mentally you need to be ped your previous relationships and looking forward, in regards to you having kids, I have no problem with that except that you and your baby's father both need to be ped each other, and not bothered or concerned about who the other one is dating or seeing and etc......In regards to you being a parent.......Its not my business as to what kind of parent you are or how you raise your kid(s)......But I still take a mental note of it.....Only because I feel that it speaks to your character. so with that, i hope to hear from you.