I'm recently seperated, but I had a long time to think about what it is that I am looking for. I'm not looking for a relationship. I'm not looking for the perfect person. I'm not looking for those pretending to be who they are not. I just want to relax, slow down and enjoy the company I am with. I don't want to put any undue pressure on anything. I just want to chat with someone that wants to enjoy life. I want to go out on a date and have fun. Then if we decide that we had fun together, go out on another date. Let things progress as they go. If it turns into more that's great. If not that's ok too because at least it was just a date to have fun. One caveat if you are just looking for a hookup please do not waste my time.