I am an attractive, sensual, independent 41 year old woman who is seeking either dating or an ongoing intimate encounter. I will be honest and say that I am at the end of a long term relationship, it will be ending after the holidays but has to be handled my way so if that bothers you then I am not for you. I am very specific in what I am seeking, very strong minded and find that I seem to intimidate some men with my honesty concerning my desires and what I am looking for in a man. I an NOT looking for cyber-sex, men who "talk a good game" but fail to deliver, or anyone who is not going to follow up on what they tell me. I will explain that if you just ask. I work hard and play hard and have little to no time for games so please don't contact me if you are looking to play any. I will be up front with anything you want to know, all you have to do is ask, all I ask is that you show the same courtesy. I will gladly provide a photo on request, will not post one here for obvious reasons. I prefer younger men so I am seeking an age range between 26-38, if there are any men who think they can handle a strong, anti-typical woman, drop me a line.