I'm not looking for my soul mate. When he comes along, we'll know. I am pretty open minded, find peace on my horse, yet I have recently noticed I can be aggressive and impatient, ok so its not recently, but it is part of my personality. Have a great job, that I love. I'm ok alone. The kids are great, and almost gone. (whew) I am Emotionally stable, blah blah. The marriage thing just didn't work, we grew in different directions. Wish him the best. So whats going to impress me and catch my attention? I know not. Tend to be attracted to the bad boys, ;o}...as are all of us