Not looking for long term commitment right now, just a friend, someone to talk with about how your day went, and how mine went also… maybe spend some time doing things with if you are interested. I have things with me to take care of before getting into any kind of relationship both mentally and physically… not meant to scare you off, let me clarify, mentally; I need to get my life re-figured out, set goals both short and long term, and figure out what I want. Physically; I need to get myself back in shape, yes I’m over weight and I need to make adjustments to my life to help me make this adjustment back to where I used to be, but it will come. One thing you must know: Although I am going through a divorce, it’s not messy we are still friends (she says like brother and sister) as this is something we both realize needs to happen after 15 years of marriage.