I have been married 23 years, I am married to a woman I haven't trusted or loved for years. I am staying here for my daughter, until she is old enough. I am not looking to "cheat" or have an affair because our time as a couple is over (my cheesy rationale ?) and has been for some time. My (furure-ex) wife and I discuss the divorce openly (not around my daughter) and are both focused on that end. I am simply ready to have a life and have someone to care about while ensuring my daughter is raised the way I think she deserves. I am 5'11, 190 lbs, in decent shape and a smoker. I am a clean, healthy, professional 43 year old white male ready to have some fun. Despite how it looks, I am a honest, open, caring and a gentlemen who knows how to treat a lady. I