Too busy for online dating but thought I'd give it a shot. I work a lot. I'm a busy mother to 3 amazing boys ages 11, 7 and 3 and am putting myself through school. My hope is to get back into the legal field in the next few years when my youngest is off to school. I'm open to someone having children, I just don't think I want anymore. I was truly blessed to have had my boys and have enjoyed every moment of being a mother but I'm working hard to get myself back mentally and physically. Now that I'm 30, I realize I don't want to be an "old" mom. I'm thrilled to have had my children through my 20's and still have energy to enjoy them! (Don't worry guys, I'm not looking for a replacement father for them!) I'm extremely independent and a bit type A personality. However, when it comes to relationships I'm a total "girl" and get jealous and clingy....I hate to admit it, but it's true. I'm always told I'm pretty, but trust me, I don't feel it after having 3 kids. I'm always the type of girl men flock to until something better comes along. I get it, they have the "gr is greener" syndrome. I can't lie, I've done it to men before. We get what we give. I'm super empathetic to others as I've had so many positives and negatives in my life and try to be kind to all I meet. I'd love to find a truly "good guy" that's the whole package. I'm a good girl (YES I'M CHRISTIAN!) so don't even think about a quick easy time. I want to find that guy, I can be friends with first. I want to be silly, serious, immature, have fun and build towards a intimate relationship. (PLEASE don't message me and start asking about s$x within the first few days of chat....makes me want to vomit as you obviously are single for a reason!) I'm a romantic, so I must be in love or close to it to take things to another level. With that said, who I choose to be with is surprised at how "fun" I can be when the time comes. I'm very submissive and love a dominant man behind closed doors. I want to take things slow and JUST BE FRIENDS - first!!! I love to go do fun activities with a guy, mostly because I like to feel wanted by a man and it helps keep all the other creepy men away. My girl friends are amazing and I'm truly blessed to have so many, but it isn't the same hanging out with them all the time. I love just having a silly, flirty time with no expectations. I'm looking for a stable, independent man that is in control of his life and has lots of goals - not just short term but long term. This is a major factor to me. If you have been in jail, do drugs or whatever, DO NOT message me! To all, I hope you find what you are looking for. Take care!