ok so here is the thing...being single is all new to me...so ill be honest and say i dont know what the heck im doing and i have never used a site like this. I am really just looking for friendship. If it turns into more....great...if not...great i have a new friend. Just to make it clear...im not looking for a sex fling! i have too much respect for myself for that. Nor am i looking to be someone's "sugar momma"!i am not rich...and i do not want to mother you. i feel like i needed to add this just from the messages i have received. also while im at it....i do not have any kind of interest in a married man. i apologize if this sounds too blunt but it needed to be said and now that i have that out of the way...... I love a comical person...i love to laugh. I wont tell you that i am totally laid back (hence the name Tenacity) but being around a laid back person tends to be my calm. I am down to earth though. I love to be active but i have no problem staying home and watching movies & such every once in a while too. A few things i wont tolerate is dishonesty and disrespect and i can not stand arrogance! A few things i do love is gentleness,pion,affection and kindness. If you want to know anything else just ask. :) Good luck to all.