I am an outgoing person who loves to laugh and joke around. I like to be around witty people who can keep up with my sense of humor because they keep me on my toes. I love the outdoors and animals. I also read science fiction/fantasy novels. (I know, I know, I don't look like a nerd, but I am a cool one). I do like honesty in a person (ok if I ask you if these pants make me look fat, you can lie) I am pretty independent and a little outspoken for my own good. I have a soft and caring side but only let the people closest to me see it. I like touching and caressing that someone special. Just a brush on the cheek or a soft caress on the hand can say so much. I consider myself to be intelligent. (No blond hairs here only a little gray) I believe that you have to be friends as well as lovers. I would like to find that special someone who puts a smile on my face just thinking about them. Someone who thinks that I am special just as much as I think they are special. Someone who sends shivers down your spine just from hearing their voice on the phone. I am looking for someone special who makes me feel cared for and safe. I would like to find that special someone who wants to build a life together and enjoy each others interests.