I have lived in Japan for ten years and I've been living in Brazil for ten years since then (I call it carma!), I have my own house and I own a company (and I feel like getting rid of both of them and moving to the jungle), Intense, tense on some periods (a girl living in a concrete jungle after all), no patience for the entire let's get to know eachother forever thing and not willing to put effort on the friendship with benefits relationship style either, studying Psychology (after I have figured my own head I can probably lend a hand on yours), an amazing mother of three amazing kids (and although they don't give me any headache (anymore) no ****ing way I'm having another one of those things! (I would consider adopting tho!) loving (if you keep being lovable!), a bit sarcastic, (mostly on myself!), not the jealous type (anymore), hard worker (it doesn't mean I'm good at making money), not the kind of women who would spend five hours shopping or six in a beauty saloon (if you're looking for a brazilian Barbie, please move on to next profile - I'm quite normal and I'm not obscessed with my as*, my looks or my bank account, or yours!). Lately I've been commited to teach my kids real values and multiple ways of surviving without being a muppet of the system, teaching is one of my passions, learning as well, reading, camping, cooking, dancing, nature, pets, good music, good talks and spirituality. By the way, I'm number 7, Scorpio is my solar sign, moon in Leo and ascendant in Aries. So, loyalty is what suits me the most and it's also what I'm looking for (whatever we decide to go for! =) Hope to talk to you soon, cheers! =) A little about who I expect to meet: My perfect deal wouldn't bother if I cursed, cause I believe we achieve better communication if we are free to speak whatever comes to our mind. He would probably curse as well, cause it would sound to him like any other word in his language. He wouldn't mind teaching new words and correcting his partner as he knows her first language isn't English. He would also have lots of fun learning Portuguese, as sharing knowledge is one of his passions! He desires to live in a community, to build a community or to have his own community, sharing, caring, giving, receiveing, building, enjoying each other and taking good care of each other the best way he can. He loves to learn about different cultures, new food, new songs, new games. He also enjoys cooking, building, remodeling, renovating... together! =) He's a talker! He loves to talk about life, he's witty and he has a gret sense of humor, with lots of sarcasm! At the same time, he's spiritual, emotional and sensitive. He's not afraid of showing and getting afection. He loves to cuddle and spooning. He knows how important is to embrace. He's willing to be faithful and to enjoy his future wife's body to the fullest. No limits for love and touching. No cheating. I hope his arms feels like home to me as my lap and shoulder to him. He's a self employed, or at least he wishes to be, he knows how to manage his time to have more enjoyable time with his family. ;) He's a big man who wears a huge heart. Not afraid of asking for help, humble enough to know he can learn from young, who lends his ears to the elderly and likes to volunteer. he loves animals and he respects all beings. He treats people like he wants to be treated. A little (more) about myself: I have three kids, 17, 14 and 10 and they're incredibly sweet and cool. We all do Capoeira, rollerskate and sports. I'm an autodidact by nature, I speak Portuguese, English, Japanese, Spanish and I can understand most latin based languages. I've been a teacher for almost twenty years. (Although I have recently closed the company and became a hippie) I've built part of my house myself. (including the bathtub!) I don't watch TV at all, but I do love films. I was married twice for ten years each time. (I consider it sucessfull!) I've been self employed for the last 15 years. I'm now running a project with my kids, it has to do with practical learning, sustaintability, renovating, art, non-violent communication, copyleft products and sharing knowledge. I've been learning about spirituality through ayahuasca and Xamanism. I love to get my hands dirty making art or remodeling whatever. I'm fine with being single, but I think I work much better in a team. ;) Well, from the novel above, you can figure that I'm pretty real. I have no time for bs, nor drama. Whatever you ask me I'll answer. I have no problem communicating how I feel and I'm not ashamed of who I am. The reason I'm looking for a foreigner has to do with the lack of values and moral in my own country. I even like the fact we're some continents away, it will give us time to get to know each other further. ;) If I find the man I'm looking for I have no problems moving abroad, as I'll be fine if he decides to move in. Anything for the benefit of the whole. Cheers! =)