I am secure & happy with myself however..........Life is meant for 2!! I am a social butterfly with a great sense of adventure. This female is a Straight shooter and also respects a man who isn't hesitsant to speak his mind.... Strong minded and spontaneous. I have a great career and am mother to 3 boys ages 18, 16 and 7 who are all pretty much awesome! We are ALL obnoxious Philly sports fan in this household!!! My friends would describe me as the "life of the party", honest, understanding, laid back and full of positive energy. My career can be quite demanding at times but I love what I do and play just as hard as I work. I am looking for a man who can make me laugh after a chaotic day at work, also be able to take my sarcastic humor. if you can't take a joke, I'm not the one. I am seeking a man who is established and grounded in his life and has goals and the ambition to stop at nothing until achieved.....a go-getter. (thats ME) I am looking for a man that is confident, respectful but yet has a pinch of bad boy in his blood. I AM 100% SINGLE and have a lot to offer to the right man, if you are not in the same position please don't waste my time. Without trying to sound too negative here I want to be clear.....I am not here to judge or look down upon however if you don't have a car, can't invite me over sometime to your place because of a current living situation, I am not interested. With that being said, I only expect what I can offer. ;)