. . . Although, he may not have been my first choice. I have a great job, educated and well-read. Three kids that don't live with me and are wonderful. I am warm, attentive, smart, fun and funny. Athletic and musically inclined . . . I will send a pic if you like . . . I don't think it will disappoint. I've yet to get my head around putting a pic online, attached to so much personal information. Very 20th century, I know. I'm private and discreet. The athletic description should be expounded upon: I play tennis, squash or racquetball 3-4 times / week, I still (at my advanced years) play softball (outfield and short; not the pot-bellied pitcher or catcher), and have a dualsport motorcycle (street legal, but made for trails/dirt, which is where I feel safest riding). I even do step and kick boxing cles from time to time -- no spin cles :) These things keep me busy. I smoke, which is in direct opposition to every other part of my lifestyle, but could quit anytime I want. :) My match would take care of herself, but that doesn't mean she'd have to be 105 lbs. Also, she would be: smart, understand subtleties and sarcasm, understand that we are where we are because we choose to be there -- she would not be "a victim."