Aloha to all, in this magical place we call home, here on the 9th Island.......I picked this clification on CL because it was not cluttered with ads for sex hookups, which has never been of interest to me as it is my personal belief that sex should be expressed only b y two men who love each and not be taken for granted....... With that said, I have much hope in my heart, in connecting with another that wants/needs a committed partner/companion and is able to accept and be happy with a older man who has the need and desire to share life and pion with a loving partner......( I know I'm not alone in this need!). I lived in Connecticut through the sixties and seventies and had a very special relationship with the local way of life and it's people, but due to cirstances, moved to Machustts to reorganize my life's dreams and hopes....... Now, I'm living on the 9th Island........ I have been blessed with a wonderful, honest, caring, loving partner from Kauai Hawaii for the last twenty years, and we have had a very happy life together, however, we have both grown apart due to a change in his atude towards our relationship........ and we need to accepted the need for a change in order to find that fulfillment that we all need so much in our lives..... Being a gay male here on the 9th island, I find that I really don't fit in with the gay community all that well.......That said, I truly believe there are others out there that have similar feelings and would like to meet up and see where things could go between the three of us...... Just for the record, I believe in honesty and commitment in my relationship with you, whether it be for friendship or for the long term.... I also love TOUCH (of mind, body and soul) and can be very sensual with my special someones....... I am looking for a Pacific Islander who is sexually an affectionate romantic bottom with a great personality and heart of Gold. Someone motivated and with a great mind, soul, and head not just for yourself but for others as well. Someone not afraid to share their mind and ideas. Honesty, loyalty, respectful, intelligent, and a non-smoker and non-drug user are included in group of norms. Physically, someone under 5'8", very smooth wtih a flat stomach would be nice, someone a combination of fem & masculine, cultured, and well rounded. Prefer someone pionate, romantic, a good communicator that if there is a disagreement, would be willing to talk about and bring it to resolution. If you want to know more about me, feel free to send me an e-mail but basically, I am fun, conversational, intelligent and good natured. Consider myself to be a romantic and very pionate guy who enjoys kissing and cuddling. That is my story. I love helping others, I'm very close to my circle of friends and cherish them all. I am 50 Gemini hairy, 6'3", 205 Lbs, ruddy complexion, blue eyes and brown/grey hair, I am hung and of Scottish/Italian origin, I don't drive a car. I work FT. I can always send you a picture if preferred, but if you request one you must be willing to share one from you first. Very nice laid back druama free guy here who has a lot to offer, but best of all a true friend. With much Mahalo for reading this post, I do look forward to hearing back from you... Donald