Well, first off. I am not here looking for love. I am not foolish enough to think that I can find that from a internet dating site. I believe that "Love" comes from friendship FIRST. After all the newness, all the luster and all BANG of a newly formed romance has died down. I think then your left with a decision? Is there enough their, are you so intertwined now, that you WANT to continue? I also do not want to force friendship or love as well. Forced love, is just a recipe for disaster. I am looking for someone that I can build a foundation of friendship, if more evolves then we both win. Ok so about me. I just moved to the Kissimmee area a few months ago. I don't really know too many people here, except a few co-workers and my family. Therefore, I have thrown myself into work a little more than usual. Yes I do have GOALS. I also see them in my reach. In my down time, I like to catch a ball game at a local sports bar. I like to go out to eat, but would rather whip up a good home cooked meal (yes, I can GET DOWN in the kitchen), I love playing golf, going out for a night on the town for some drinks. But conversely I am more of a small group kinda guy, I can stay home, cook up a great meal, catch a show on tv, or watch a good movie. I don't do the whole "clubbin" thing. Been there, over that. I have had my fair share of nights closing down the club or bar. Isn't that what your EARLY 20's are for. Now in my almost 30's (God that sounds old to me now)I more enjoy the company of close friends and family, but isn't that what really counts? Now, Let me be clear I am not a homebody, I DO like to go out, I just can't see making it my lifestyle. I am career minded, but not so closed minded about my career, that I don't have a life outside work. I guess I am really just me. Stable, spontaneos, a hopeless romantic, loyal, loving, caring, rolled all in one. I do wish to find the "right woman", just not willing to settle or have it forced. Obiviously, physical attraction is a must. I always say "beauty is what draws you in, substance is what makes you WANT to stay". Good luck in what ever you are looking for.