I am a fun energetic gal . I am very open minded and I am not one to judge.....I believe everyone deserves a first chance...I live by the golden rule and treat others like I want to be treated, then I treat you like you treat me, so always be nice and keep it real and I will do the same. I am a full time college student and I am a partner in a small local business. When I get the chance, I like to spend time outdoors, going to the lake or BBQ with friends is my idea of a good time. I enjoy camping and I am not afraid to get dirty....mud is my favorite color! I am much more of a BBQ and bud light gal than a candlelight and wine gal. About my match: He needs to be my height or preferablly taller, Like my screen name states I am a BBW, that means I am a big gir! and I want a guy who can handle me. I prefer caucasion males.....tattoos rock! however, whatever my guy looks like, he must be 100% male!!! no sissies allowed!!!! he must know how to BBQ....because half the time I cant light the charcaol. I will gladly handle a football fan, would happily make hot wings every Sunday to munch on during the big game......someone who can handle my honey do list would be appreciated....ie: hang the mirror, check the oil, ph balance the spa...yadda yadda...there is man work and woman work...i can handle both, but would love someone to spend time with and share things with. Would like to find someone who realizes I have more to offer than what is between my legs. I am not a prude by any means, but want to get to know someone and find out if I am attracted to them and have a desire to be with them physically before he starts talking sexual....if I find the right guy....I am an any place any time of gal....a road trip to some unknown destinationis is a romantic weekend waiting to happen guaranteed with lots of pleasure stops on the way Still want to know more? Read on... What would you like to do on a first date? First dates are almost always awkward no matter what you do....I have found that Mini Golf works well.....you get to walk & talk....ask and answer about 50 questions ......and a little compeion is always fun.....don't get me wrong....I love free dinner too....but usually on a first sate, I am too nervous and excited to eat....and a little scared I might drop the pasta on my chest (Never Fails) LOL! Why you should get to know me: Geez.... why should you get to know me?....I am a big believer in the golden rule...."treat others like you want to be treated" which I fallow, then I treat you like you treat me. So be honest, nice, and polite and I will do the same. I also believe everyone gets a first chance...no matter what your froends might say or what B.S. I might have heard...I don't judge....I am a big girl and can form my own opinions....with me, everyone gets a clean slate....my past isn't perfect....I have had a few "learning experiences" myself and wouldn't want you to hold my past against me....once again, "The Golden Rule" falling into effect. What have past relationships taught you? Oh wow! past relationships? they have taught me.... a "yes" man can be fun for awhile, but soon gets boring.....like I stated in my profile, I like manly men....so my match must have a backbone....and an opinion.....some men might think that women like to call the shots....but in reality a man should be ertive, not overbearing Describe some of the most important things in your life: Easy question. The most important thing in my life is my family. Friends come and go, but (if you are lucky) family is there for you. My daughter is the biggest blessing in my life. I am a full time single mom (yup, made her all by myself. LOL) she has been such a joy....single mom is tough work though....I am thankful for the experience, the joy and the love but it isn't anything I plan on doing again anytime soon. Oh and my truck! I LOVE MY TRUCK!!! YOYTA POWER! Describe your perfect day: A perfect day.....wake up and have one of those itches to do something spontaneous.....pick a direction and just head off.....with that special someone of course.....just see where the road takes you....stop and enjoy every look off and little attraction.....picnic along the way.....do a little adult activity along the way XXX......find some quaint little town that isn't even on the map.....rent a room at some little hole in the wall....you know something adventurous, care free, relaxing....sound like fun? One final thing I'd like to mention... P.S. I am the coolest person I know...and if we hang out you will see it too....I am so easy going, save the drama for your mama. Would love to find someone who sparks my interest and looking to enjoy life with a real woman! hope to talk to you soon!