I wish I could say that I am new to this whole online dating game. But I have been around for a couple of years now. So before I tell you what I am looking for I will tell you what I am NOT looking for. That is more important..LOL While it may seem like to some that I am jaded, I really am not. I am just frustrated with the endless stream of people who have no place even being on a dating site... I am NOT interested in married men. I was once married to a man whose favorite activity was extra-curricular. And while it may not bother you, I know what it feels like to be on the receiving end of that. I will not play that game. If you are separated, I can sympathize. but please contact me after things are finalized. For those of you who are just looking for a hook up or a quick round of phone sex,Grow up and get a life.! I enjoy those things as much as anyone but not five minutes into the conversation!!!! I wonder why so many people ,both men and women ,on here have no pic posted(prior experience tells me they are married) I am not all about looks, it is far more important to me the person that you are on the inside but attraction does play a big part in the dating game. One more then its on to the good stuff... If you are from another country(Africa) and cant speak or type enlish and just want to help me out by unloading me of my m wealth, sorry my kids beat you to it...But I hear Oprah is single and loaded! Now for those of you who haven't took of running in the other direction here is a little about me and what I am looking for... I am a well adjusted.intelligent, fun-loving, easy-going person, whose baggage has been properly dealt with and packed into a tiny size suit case then buried in the back of the closet. I have a 14 year old son and a grown daughter who is married and has a three year old.!! Yes I am a grandma and loving every minute of it. I have a very full and satisfying life and am not looking for someone to make me feel complete but rather to compliment the life that I have. My faith and belief in God are very important to me and i would to find someone whose shares those values even if they dont attend church on a weekly basis. My perfect mate would be the person who is self-confident, secure and laid back. He would enjoy spending time with me but also be able to hang with the guys without feeling guilty. I love the time I get to spend with my friends. After all our friends help to mold us into the people that we are. I would love to find someone that loves their family and friends so much that they would drop everything, no questions asked, if they were needed. When in a committed relationship I am 100% honest and faithful and expect no less in return. I love to pamper and spoil and would love nothing more than to have the favor returned by that special someone. I am so much more than I can put into words but the only way you will ever know is to contact me. What I can do is promise you that you on't be sorry. Go ahead, give it a try. I dont bite. Hard anyway, hehehehe