I have always been a pleaser, and a man without fear who takes great pride in perfection as a leader to lead by example. They say that what you are from birth is what creates you; I say that I create my own destiny, and only I am in charge of my own destiny. I have learned that honor, trust, and truth tempered by empathy are important key parts of my personality that create the mity line that will only allow me to honorably act, I am trusted and respected because of who I am and who I choose to be, how I choose to care is my choice and I choose to care for those I share my life with, with the protective heart of a lion, and yet the gentleness of a mouse. I choose to take my honor and wear it proudly, for it is not those who choose to love me that matters, it is whom I choose to love weather it is returned or not that matters most. Do you believe that you are real? do you believe you are Honest? Do you believe you can truly be a friend without taking from me selfishly? if so I will choose to give to you freely and will gladly be your friend? would you like to get to imtimate with me? you must be real to move my soul, the way to touch my heart is through honesty no matter what? without honesty there is no truth, without truth ther is not interest, if you are not honest to yourself, how can you be to others? can you move me, can I hold you and just be able to be held back, how do you want me to be other than me? Lets get together and cuddle to a good movie, by a fireplace, or just hold each other in bed together wanting to be loved by someone real... I am a lover and a pleaser but I must have the truth to want to care as there are too many energy vampires out there that take & take & take / want to be loved and want to love that takes real to start/ we are not all perfect mistakes happen, I do not judge, but need to know who you are and your values as well.