Why I'm still here, I don't know. I wlll stay for awhile longer. Not a knight in shining armor, nor a magical wizard. I am looking to find someone as laid back as I have become. I live in an old log cabin, built around 1820. I just moved here as I love these old places. And with a fireplace, it sure is cozy on those cold nights. It's not fancy, and neither am I. I Do have to share my apartment with my room mate, Felix T. Catt. I have been divorced for 20 years, and raised my daughter alone. I had no time to date back then, and got into the rut of just working, even tho she has been married for the past 10 yrs. I got used to my life style of being alone. I plan on retiring within 2 yrs and considering moving to Oklahoma, in the country. (anywhere except Jersey) That is where my son-in-law is from, and he will retire from the Marnie Corps, in about 6 more years. I have no family to keep me in Jersey. I can't seem to find someone special, in my area, thats why I am here. I don't like fine dining, theater,casinos. and dressing up. WHen not working, I wear jeans. I rather have a geat hamberger, pizza, seafood, and italian food. Anything that is considered very casual dining. Not looking for large women (C'mon ladies I'm a lightweight), heavy drinkers or druggies. Head games and drama are not my style,Honesty is. If seriously interested, I'll give you my e-mail. As my job incudes alot of physical activity, I don't need anymore exercise after work. Except...maybe...taking a walk, or lifting a cup of coffee. I do smoke, but very rarely drink. I have a collection of clic movies, do a fair job in the kitchen, and make an attempt at playing a musical instument. OH!! I am addicted to WaWa coffee. So, if you should be from my area, and you see a very, old ivory colord 1957 Porsche convertable, (Too cold to drive in the Winter) that is one of a kind,(usually at a WaWa) say Hello and have a coffee with me. I don't bite. Always willing to make a new friend. Allen