Well a little about me:) Im very stable and a educated Man looking to meet someone special. While still being nice I stand my ground on what I believe is right and anyone would feel safe being around me. I have a muscular stocky build as im an ex-bodybuilder(Not Professional). Im ex-military and I also teach Karate and im a 7th Degree Black Belt and have been doing the Martial Arts for most of my life. I teach a few times a week and have a lot of fun with the kids. I believe that they are our future and need to be taught good values and how to be safe. I have owned large successful businesses, was a L.A. Cop for a short time and have had my share of crappy jobs long the way. I believe that everything we do shapes us for the better as long as we learn from it. Im very laid back and relaxed and try to take good care of myself. I have a huge heart and im very honest sometimes to much! I have 2 boys that are the love of my life. I live in my own house that I wish was paid for in Surprise and im financially stable. I love to go out for a nice dinner with great conversation(who doesn't), going to a movie or im just as happy watching something on one of the 300 cable channels that I have that never seems to have anything on:) What I watch on TV varies from American Idol to just about anything on the Discovery Channel or Reality TV. Who I am looking for is someone who is stable, attractive, smart(Educated or Self-Educated) drug free, HONEST and has a great sense of humor. Im very different from most Men as I don't have a one track mind and im not looking for just one thing. My many Life Experiences have made me into a complete person who is missing one single element. I have a very wide variety of interests and have done quite a bit in my life enough to fill several lifetimes and im just getting started.