I am retired from the Armed Forces (82D Airborne Division) for three years. I stay in pretty good shape being outside and working landscaping and garden type work. I stopped smoking 2 years ago, however ocional smokers don't bother me. I chose Landscaping as a part time income because of the physical activity and the $$$$. I have 5 children of my own which 4 are grown and gone. I have a 10 year old son at home that is only mine because his mother past away 8 years ago. I want to spend time with someone that loves to be held as I do and that loves people and most of all loves to laugh. I am also looking for intimacy which does not have to be on the 1st date. I will feel no different if it is the 1st or 3rd. That should happen when both people decide the time is right. I also live on a lake that the dam area broke almost 3 years ago but should be back in December. It will be great if you love the water for fishing, boat riding, seadooing, skiing, swimming, sun tanning and maybe skinny dipping after the kids are asleep or spending the night elsewhere.LOL