what to say in the blurb? i am an honest guy who does ot play games nor deal willingly with game players. i am not baggage free but carry mine well and expect the same from my partner. speaking of partner that is what the person i eventually will end up with will be, a partner. i dont want to take care of anyone and dont expect to be taken care of. i neither give nor take orders well. that said i am very supportive of you doing what you need to do. you had friends and family before we met and i have no problem with you spending time with them with or without me. (course i expect the same treatment). biggest thing to know about me is that i have no intention of staying in the indianapolis area after the end of the enxt school year. my daughter graduates and thats it. i am beach bound at that point. not to retire but to be close to the salt water and the magic kingdom, yeah i am a big kid at heart, childlike, not childish. Hope to hear from you soon. Rich