..the hat? It's a Firefly (Sci Fi tv show) thing.... Teddy Bear IT Geek with old fashioned values looking for a woman who: 1) can not only spell "Conversation", but knows how to have one. 2) does not use the words "Dawg" or "Holla" unless it is jest. 3) doesn't mind a man with hair (i saw 40 y.o. virgin...NO WAY am i getting waxed!) I enjoy cultural events, Science Fiction (reading and movies), and one-on-one time. I give and expect honesty, respect, loyalty. I'm not into NASCAR, sports, hunting, fishing, or "mudding" ..did i mention i'm a Firefly Fanatic..? lol Update: looks like in the next couple of years i'll be moving with my job to Indy.. grew up in Martinsville, so thats a good thing!