I am tired of finding men with only one thing on their minds. Not that that isn't an important part of any relationship, but I don't believe it should be the only thing either. I am a romantic idealist at heart and would like to find the proverbial knight in shining armor. A man who knows how to defend his lady and her honor, but never impugn either. I am not looking for a man to take care of me, but emotional and mental support are very important. I am very into music...and its mostly rock, goth, and metal. I love horror movies as long as they aren't campy. Movies of any kind really as long as they aren't badly made and have a good storyline. I love to hot tub, swim, camp, fish, read, drink occasionally (will not tolerate alcoholics), and yes I smoke (cigs only) and like to do so...if this is an issue for you, let me be. I am not ready to give it up. I have some physical limitations that keep me from doing more. If I were able I would love to bike, hike, and take long walks. I am trying to open my own business making beaded and wire jewelry, but I have alot of spare time on my hands. I have two boys that live at home, and they are my life. I am also a very spiritual person, not religious. I have a certain intolerance for organized religion, but tend to follow my own paganesque path. If my being on the pagan side bothers you, move on!! I am not looking for games, and HATE drama...although I do understand that there are things beyond our control, and can be pretty flexible. Also, if you are married, move on...I will not have anything to do with a married man. I love life and try to be a happy upbeat person, it is a definate struggle in this day and age but if we keep trying... Anyway, enough about me, tell me about you.