.....First, I have 2 kids, I'm into goth stuff..but also christian, so this translates to me just wearing alot of black I guess and listening to bands of that genre. I know what I want and what I dont. I know what I will put up with and what I wont. I am only looking for someone who is considerate of my feelings and very kind. I am not into the club scene, nor can I compete with little 21 year bimbos who go to those. IF thats what your into you definately will not be into me because I played that whole game too when I was younger and I am still single today so I know that gets you nowhere. I do have tattoos and so I am open minded actually. Like I said, I have kids but I wont introduce you until I know you. I am really a nice person. I like punk,gothic and alternative and emo music. I am left handed. As for what I am looking for I am seeking a relationship leading up to marriage WITH THE RIGHT PERSON of course. I am seeking a caucasian or hispanic guy, as not to offend or exclude anyone that is just my preference. I am also specifically seeking someone who has steady employment! You are NOT going to have sex with me unless we have just gotten married or maybe even right before we get married, maybe even before that but the whole point here is that is not going to be the focus of our relationship and so with me you are going to have to actually get to know me and leave the games aside. I know there are really good men out there who are ready to settle down and be married and spend life with someone they love. That is definately what I am looking for. I am a size 16. I weigh 165. I am not a size 2. I am just as deserving of happiness as someone who is a size 2. I like good music all kinds of movies, I love mexican and italian food or I can settle for monster tacos,or cheeseburgers and french fries..I like to read and paint and read tarot cards and take photos... my photos on here were taken from may 08 up till november. I'm gonna sign off for now but I guess my whole point is that this life is dangerous and it is tough. Wouldnt it be nice to find someone to tough out this life together? We're not here to be alone. We're here to find one another and be happy.