I am a real woman with curves i.e. I have meat on my bones. I make an excellent friend. I am a hopeless romantic. I love to hold hands and love to be held. I take pride in myself and my appearance and I always smell good! Therefore it would be nice if you were the same. I love spas/swimming, going for light walks especially on the beach (but sorry I am not into tramping or hikes) and I enjoy entertaining. I am a reasonably good cook and I like to spoil a man. I especially LOVE dancing the night away, but it is not the be-all and end-all. I would, however, appreciate it if you do decide to message or smile at me, please add your picture (if not already on your profile) as you have seen mine.... It's only fair - right? If you live outside of New Zealand sorry I'm not looking for a penpal. I'm not into endless texts/messages/emails. I want to meet you and date! Sorry long distance relationships don't work for me. I would really like to meet a man who enjoys good music, and has a good sense of humour. Someone who enjoys going to the movies, romantic dinners for 2 (dining in or out), but equally doesn't mind snuggling up on the couch watching a dvd, or just a nice stroll under the stars..... I am looking for someone who is genuinely looking for something more and who wants someone in their life to share those moments with, as I really miss this component in my life. Someone who is happy to be seen on my arm, and me on his. Someone who is not completely commitment phobic would be good for a start. I am not into sharing a man (as in romantically) as I am a one man gal. I am an honest, caring and a loyal person,(and you should be too) with a lot of love and affection to give to the right man... are you him? Someone who is interested in having a real conversation and who is not into playing games. I am tired of time wasters and men who are only into one night stands and I especially dislike aggressive men who don't know the meaning of the word "no". I would like to experience good old fashioned romance - or does this only happen in movies Ideally I would like to meet a man who knows the meaning of the word DATE