Hello to everyone who,s reading my name is CJ let me see where to start...if i have to describe myself in a few words:quiet,shy,and a dry/sarcastic sense of humor that can loose people in conversation from what i,ve been told.I,m not in a hurry to jump into another relationship because i,ve been hurt a few times and the whole "I will never hurt you or do you wrong"speech is getting played out...so needless to say trust is difficult for me.I,m considering studying for my degree in drug and alcohal counciling/rehabilitation orriented work because i used to live that lifestlye and i want to be an inspiration to others and see if i can make a difference.Here are my standards 1)be a non-smoker 2)you must not be into drugs or drauma 3)you must know what i,m saying even if you don,t see eye to eye on my perspective on life from my own expierences 4)don,t be judgemental 5)no double standards 6)you must have a sense of humor i can,t stand people who don,t understand sarcasm. So if you have an interesting or intellectual conversation to offer then hit me up and i will answer you back and thank you for reading.