Have been pre-occupied with work & life, for too long..... Am content alone, but a companion/friend/lover would spice things up........ I'm ready for some spice.... cinnamon, corriander... maybe a little fennel.... I like a variety.... I am eclectic in my taste of music & just about everything... I like alot of various activities, from very physical - like tennis - to very laid back, like cuddling while watching a movie For those of you who wonder why I've never been married... it's by choice, not b/c I've never been asked or never been engaged.... I'm just the kind of person that is not going to argue & all that rot for the rest of my life... If me & my partner can't discuss our differences & come to an equitable compromise or understanding then we don't need to be together..... I really hope to find someone with that same outlook, who knows how to communicate & compromise & all that is required to make a relationship work for both & not just for themself......... I am self reliant, but would like to have someone that I know I can count on..... someone to share life with.... who can laugh at life.... & make lemonade out of lemons..... & appreciate the simple things.... & who knows how to be nice longer than just during the 'mating ritual'..... : )