Hi there. I am 25 and I have three great little boys. If you dont like, havent been around, or dont think that you will like kids, then I am definatally not the girl for you. I have been broken up with on several ocions becasue of the kids and I am not interested in anyone who thinks that they can take them on and then decides that playing house isnt fun anymore. I am a good woman and I am sick and tired of having my heart broken. I am very independent and work full time. I like to go out and have a few drinks every once and awhile but I dont get to go out often which is another problem for alot of me. I cant go out all the time. Thats just the way that it is. I am loving and would do anything for the person that I am dating. I do not believe that " I llove you" are words that should be thrown around. So many people abuse that phrase. I try to be a postive person, but with my last breakup I am ready to give up on love. Trust is the most important thing in a relationship and thats all I ask. And sadly, most of the time I am not even granted that. My kids and I deserve so much and I am willing to make someone the happiest man that he has even been, but someone needs to give that to me as well.