Don't look at your life as a puzzle because you may never find that missing piece. The hole that it leaves will cause you constant grief. Any puzzle once completed either has to be taken apart or glued in time. Taken a part is often tragic but no less so than the tedium of being trapped in one second of time. View your life as a mural. Everyone that enters it is paint. The colors that they leave draw your life's essence. This way there is no end and your growth is never boxed in the midst of jagged edges yah I am on line a lot and quite opinionated. Your right, I'm presumptuous and don't give up easy. If your mural needs some color just shoot me a line or IM. I like smiles if i can manufacturer them all the better. I have been known to send a random poem or comment just to stir some conversation. All questions, comments, observations and /or insights welcome.