I'm not looking for Mr. Universe, movie star looks, or swagger. I'd like to meet a man with personal integrity, kindness and old fashioned manners. Humility and humanity go a long way with me. Photo of me in striped shirt taken in March of this year. Sorry it's turned the wrong way. I tried 5x to fix it, to no avail. The other photos are around 2 yrs old. Please be COMPLETELY HONEST ABOUT YOUR TRUE AGE! Personal integrity is high on my list of attributes. I am a civilan employee of a local police department with 20+ yrs of service. I would describe myself as direct and pragmatic. I have pierced ears and no tattoos. I am an ExNYer and have lived in South Florida for more than 30 yrs. Like most Puerto Ricans, I was born in NY and speak no Spanish. I wish I did...only a few phrases. I enjoy participating in other people's cultures. I love Holidays like Hannuka and Xmas. I am looking for someone who is single and a NON-SMOKER. My comfort zone is being with a man who has military or law enforcement background but maybe your profession requires personal integrity. I would like someone who doesn't hate going to the gym. Someone who isn't angered and humiliated by public displays of affection or our picture being taken as a couple. I would like someone who likes live theater, concerts, museums, travel. No scrubs please. I am street smart and have been taking care of myself for a long time. I am looking for a man who will like me, love me and maybe, at some point, want to take care of me. We can take care of each other. If you are YOUNGER than me, I will just presume you're a scammer and I'll delete you. Sorry, but I am 54 and I look 54, with wrinkles and everything that goes with my age. My comfort zone is really being with a man who is older than me. I am active and love to dance in night clubs when the opportunity arises. I am a big fan of Shakespeare and all his plays. I love opera and Reggae. Not a C&W fan but would love to go to a C&W club and dance if you are willing to teach me... Yes, I'm an Atheist but I am not trying to change anyone's personal life path. I love Atheists, Agnostics, Reformed Jews and any man who can laugh at organized religion with honesty.