I am a fun loving, outgoing person. As a dancer, I tend to disregard the norms of society. This means I am very open minded and accepting of all. Therefore I am looking for a man who is the same way. Now that doesn't mean you have to dance, but I do love a man who knows his way around a dance floor, it just means that I want someone who is open minded. While most women want expensive dates and gifts, I am content with the more simple - yet throughtful - dates and gifts. It is easier to win my heart with a thoguhtful dinner and card than it is to win my heart with a flashy date and gift. The only thing that will make-or-break the deal is if you are A) rude/standoffish or B) unclean. I'm pretty easy going myself so I don't expect perfection but I do want my man well-kept and polite. This doesn't mean he has to take it to the extreme, just use common sense. I love to read. While that isn't something I expect my man to like, he needs to understand that when I am reading...pretty much everything is lost to me. I read to get lost in the novel, so if you are trying to ask or tell me something of importance, make sure I put the book down BEFORE you talk. :) People often think before they speak. For the most part so do I...but sometimes I forget and speak first. Do not take this personally if I say something that offends or upsets you. Often I have just said something before I thought it through...or I thought it sounded better in my head. All and all, I am just looking for someone who is my other, and better, half. I am a romantic and believe in soul mates. So the real question is: are you my soul mate?