I am a sensitive, loving and funny lady who is seeking friendship first. I'm into spiritual growth, thrift stores and flea markets are a pion, and I love candles & aromatherapy. I am a gentle affectionate lady that is not into drama, labels or mind games.. Must be friends first! I'm wanting a long slow courtship. I'm pretty laid back and not into drama, labels or mind games. I have no hidden agendas and I do not misrepresent myself. I am seeking a lady who is patient, loving & understanding, willing to take as much time as needed to be friends and develop trust over time..then just see where that leads. I'm not seeking sex or an intimate encounter. I'm self sufficient, smart and quite content with my life at this point. I'm not looking to move-in with anyone or have them move-in with me. I have a past. .but who doesn't. I'm honest to a fault, and tend to reveal too much. Looking eventually for that one lady who can hear the song playing in my spirit, and sing it to my heart. I'm into spiritual growth, ancient mysteries really intrigue me, antiques, thrift stores and flea markets are a pion.I love candles & oil burners /aromatherapy. I love things that expand my mind . I could get into a puzzle easily, or just snuggling up with a good book. I love my computer and spending time learning and surfing the Internet. I love to laugh, and be silly. When you have lost the ability to do that, you have lost the light inside of you. Life is too short to be angry & disgruntled all the time. I'm into butterflies in a major way! I love cozy pajama pants, I hate being scared & awkward silences . I love cheese popcorn, and I hate the fuzzy stuff that gets stuck inbetween your toes when you take your socks off. Window shopping, tattoos & shoes are cool. Singing in the shower, rainbows, and plants are enticing. I'm a big animal lover. strive to live in balance on a daily basis. I prefer to surround myself with people who are positive and will accept me for who I am and who feel that my life is as valuable and important as their life..basically relationships based on mutual love and respect. Trust me, I'm not perfect by no means, (but we won't go there). I live for today,and make memories by the moments. I believe you change for two reasons; either you learn enough that you want to,or you've been hurt enough that you have to. I would hardly call myself a "simple" woman, or "ordinary"(and many would agree with that)and often my life is rather complex. But I'm quite funny, which is a good thing, because life is hard enough without being serious all the time. I'm spontaenous, sometimes impulsive, but always fun. I like doing random acts of kindness for another person without being asked or expected to. Inner peace and contentment are what I strive for. I try to make a difference in someone's life on a daily basis through my words, deeds & actions, as well as my atude. I long to be a part of something bigger. Justice, fairness and equality are a dream. Maximum punishment for child abusers & pedophiles , stiffer punishments for drug crimes, better resources for the homeless and less fortunate would be a definate pursuit of mine. World peace & the end of war, finishing my education to obtain my degree in Social Work. Of course, to one day find that one special lady, if there is anyone out there for me, to spend the rest of my life with. I dream of someone to cuddle with, be my companion and partner, to listen to all my fears & experiences, and understand me without judgement. Someone to be my bestest friend, dance with me, kiss me at midnite on New Year's Eve, and tell me I'm beautiful & mean it. A lady who can wait till I'm ready..I am waiting my turn to be loved.