I would like to say I'm an easy going,laid back man looking for his soulmate...I'm not...God will provide the soulmate when the timing is right. Laid back? Ha! I'm raising 4 kids from 6 to 12 my life is anything but laid back right now! I guess I can say easy going about 4 days a month, when the kids are with my X. I also have a 2 year old that I get to see about 4 days a month. Not the easygoing four days I'm glad to report!! otherwise I would be all gray instead of the beginnings of salt and pepper!! So, I'm starting a mushroom farm, gourmet not psycidelic, and it's very hard and very interesting. I should have them to the market by april. I am also starting to play with cob building, thats building or sculpting with a combination of clay, straw, sand, and water. It's extremely interesting and thereputic, to get ones hands in the earth and build anything you can imagine....awesome!! I'm also changing my eating habits, Ive lost 60 pounds from 420 to360 and my goal is my weight from 2004 of 230 pounds. I'll be back to that by next valentines day that gives me a full year to make a real friend.So, I love to fish! I love to be in or near water. I want a greehouse very badly, thats the next project..I want to meet a lady that likes to get dirty gardening, flowers and veggies, one who likes to fish,..is intelligent, optimistic, does mind the smell of burning wood and the occasional taste of a smore, can lay under the stars or get into a tight skirt and look great and hold a conversation with someone at a social function. Is able to tell if I need a hug or want one. Doesnt mind my spontaneously slowly undressing her in the middle of the day while the kids are at school (my kids and hers if thats the case) and the timing is right. Is willing to put up with my ramblings, and somtimes craziness. If you are this wonder woman you will be loved and respected like you never thought possible. Never forsaken, or ignored, never take a backseat to anything other than my children's needs. ( i would expect nothing less from you with your kids) Interested please dont be shy, and dont hint around all you need to do is say hi! We can take it from there...