I'm a somewhat shy person when first meeting but come out of my shell nicely :) Once out, I'm somewhat of an extrovert. I enjoy being with people as well as solitude. I am a single mom of 3 children. My daughter is 23, and the boys are 14 and 16. I'm thankful for my children and who they are becoming. I work in the medical field. I love my job though it is high-stress and fast-paced. I tend to work better under a bit of pressure so this fits me well. I've lived in the Tulsa area for about 7 years. I'm looking forward to enjoying life while searching for the man meant for me, that compliments me and I him. Whoever you are, I can't wait to meet you!!! I’m not into head games or drama. I’m a very straightforward person who isn’t afraid to say what she’s thinking so I’m sometimes honest to a fault although thoughtfully and tactfully so. I’m looking for an independent man who is confident, secure, competent and intelligent. I’m looking for a soul mate, someone to grow old with, someone whom I can share my most innermost thoughts and feelings and feel safe in doing so, someone who would share equally and feel just as safe and loved, a best friend and lover. I enjoy doing most anything as long as I am doing it with someone to make the time enjoyable. I'm not a sports fanatic ~won't turn on the game to watch on my own ~but I will have a blast going to a game with someone who enjoys sports. I enjoy going out for dinner & drinks, the occasional bowling fun, holding hands walking at the park or the mall, movies out or in, a good compeive hand of cards or other game, hugs, cuddling, being together... P.S. no smokers please -----///\\-----Please ----///--\\\----put this ---|||---|||---on your ---|||---|||---profile if ---|||---|||---you know ----\\\-///----someone -----\\///-----who is living with, survived ------///\-----or has ped away from -----///\\\----cancer. ----///--\\\---Thank you. Dad--I miss you