For starters, if you are interested in me, message me. I quit paying for the site months ago because of all the scammers. I also quit paying attention to likes and nudges for the same reason. Anyway, all my profile information is accurate so please read it so you don't have to ask me to repeat what is already provided. Also because you need to understand what I won't go for. I will explain a few things, then describe myself because I'm tired of people doing the things I don't tolerate. If you don't have a recent photo on your profile and won't send one to me through the site messaging, don't waste your time, because I have no interest in anyone whose photo I cannot see. I'm a veteran of online and therefore put very little stock in online relationships. I believe in real world relationships. Meeting online is fine but things need to go real world pretty quickly or I lose interest. Please don't bother liking or messaging me unless you are ready to start real world dating within like 2 weeks' time maximum. If you are in another state, over like 300-400 miles from me, please don't bother liking or messaging me. If your profile says one location but you are in another, I can deal with it if the places are relatively close together but if you're not at least in a neighbor state, or in another country, don't bother liking or messaging me. That information should be in your profile and if it isn't, it amounts to deceit which is why I can no longer deal with online relationships lasting very long. I've seen too much deceit. I've had experience with online relationships and they all turned out badly due to deceit. Also, if you are promoting an adult site, I will report you for removal and if you plan to ask for any sort of financial favor before we are real world involved, don't bother. My answer is always no. Just ask the multitude that have already tried. Now about me - I'm a caring, loving, affectionate individual. I'm honest, loyal, and believe secrets have no place in a relationship. In a relationship, I put my significant other first in everything. Friends come after her. Her happiness makes me happy. I'm so mild-tempered that it shocks anyone if they see me mad and it's an even rarer sight for me to get upset with a woman. I rarely raise my voice and that is almost always to be heard over a loud noise. I don't like to argue but will sit down and talk through a disagreement. I have never, EVER raised my hand to a woman. I am looking for a woman I can love and cherish for life. In regards to children, it's not that I'm undecided it's that I'm open. I am working on getting things together to work with the Farm Services Agency and get financed to start a farm. What I would like to do is use the fresh vegetables for canning various products and sell them online or in a farmers' market.