I believe each person needs to set goals and working to achieve them. Each partner needs to respect each other's space. Happiness is my number one goal for myself and everyone else in the cosmos. Happiness is found everywhere; you need to look for it. Negativity is the biggest turn off, so is a bad atude and character ination; Spending time with a serene, sensitive and smart would also bring me happiness. Music is the great equalizer; I like clic rock, disco and Carly Simon style music. Books, writing, cycling and swimming are my pions. Healthy food is in, smoking is out. Although we may not like the same things in life, accepting our differences is important. Respecting your partner is paramount. Respecting all faiths and races is all-important.