After being here for a few weeks, I have decided that I need to change this section of my profile to be much more specific. First the basics, I am single and have never married and have no children. I was a family caregiver for 20 years and just never had the time to find someone and have children as my responsibility was to my family namely my grandmother and mother and dad all of which are deceased now. I am now in what I guess I would call the second phase of my life. I have wonderful friends, a job that I like but am missing something...that something is someone that I can share my life with. I lead a fairly simple life. I enjoy reading, watching some tv, going to the movies and just spending time with friends. I'd also love to finish a couple of books that I am writing. I love staying home but then again would enjoy going out the dinner and a movie on a Saturday night. I have to say that I have never enjoyed the "great outdoors" if you will. I am not one to go hiking, camping, fishing etc... and that will never change that just isn't my thing. I grew up traveling on a plane and staying in hotels and I have seen a good portion of the United States, Mexico and Canada. I would love to travel to England someday. I have been asked why I don't post a picture here well the simple answer is that I don't. Will I ever I don't know. I feel that you should get to know the person that you are talking to and then the rest follows. I don't like moving to fast and the progression for me getting to know someone from this site would be to message here and then change to messaging outside of here using something like Yahoo Messenger and then progressing to the phone. I need to get to know who you are. I am looking for a relationship not an intimate encounter. I believe that being intimate with a man is something very, very special and should be done within this confines of a serious relationship. If you are still reading this by now, please take a chance and message me what have you got to lose...maybe a few minutes out of your life but in those few minutes you could be talking to the woman that you may fall in love with and want in your life forever.