So it is me and yes I enjoy good times. not a stay-out all nite party animal; I am long past that. Prefer intellectual things and working on getting life right. I speak with a non - regional American accent and am well - spoken in Standard American English. I can talk about any subject; including Cosmology. I do not like horror movies or multiple - partners or swinging. OH! if you cannot put together a full sentence and every other word out of your mouth is F this or that. Click NO now and move on. You have to have your own resources and willing to be an equal. I do not need or want hangers - on. Remember, I am an older male; not a young stud. Not super endowed, but never have had any turn-downs. It is like the Goldilocks story. Not too big, not to small... HIV and other STDs free and will remain that way. If you have any or had any, keep that moving. So, come to me with more than your appetite. Seasoned with my years here on this planet. Don't expect if you cannot give. Doing the horizontal mambo is great; but not a full time occupation. I am loving, kind, thoughtful, gentle but not a pushover. If you are just needing an escort to go to an event or two; I can accommodate and make accommodations . The request for that will be up to you and your carrying the weight for that. I am a reasonably intelligent and an well - educated individual and DO know all to well, the many scams that are possible. I do not fall for them. So if this is your reasoning for connecting with me; please spare us both the time and trouble and keep it moving. NO long distance connections, unless you have a jet to get me there and back. So you must be within 15 miles of my location. I will travel further (up to 60 miles) if you have an escort request. Escorting does not mean gigolo, it means an arrangement that you need me to go to events with you; handle myself in convo with those at the event; leaving that event and having your connections ask you the next day, "where did you find that fantastic, handsome man..." and return you to your location. Anything more, is not a given. Be upfront, no BS, tell me truly who you are, no stalking, no overnights without relevant discussion and full permissions. Gold/Silver/Platinum diggers need not apply. I DO NOT do motorcycles, roller coasters, Halloween, Forrest Gump Day, Religious pandering. I answer to a higher spirit. I keep adding things to this profile as the days past. Come back to learn more. Got a yen for an older man of color? Message me and see where it goes.