And don't let me slip away! be aware that if you ask for money for anything, you will never hear from me again! I believe sex is the key to every relationship, if the sex is good everything else falls into place. We all have needs, so i feel they should be known ahead of time. I'm looking for the real thing, not a one night stand of friends with benefits. I'm highly sexual and require it on a daily basis. I tend to get a tad cranky after 2 days. I'm also looking for a skilled lover who knows what hes doing from beginning to end. Unlike most woman, size is a big factor, my mate should be well hung. I dont want to jump into anything, but i dont want to wait forever either. I believe forever is real, and i aim to know what its about. If i dont see a ring on my left hands no benefits. You must be marriage minded with the intentions of marriage and no funny business. Met to many of them so far. If you want me you have to be the one to claim me. Actions speak louder than words. (WHAT I MISS) Is being in love, to feel that it was worth it all. I miss days of fun, happy and fond moments at Christmas time. Photos of memories that was shared. I miss being a part of a bonding relationship. I miss being a wife, cooking and cleaning for my mate. I miss having someone who loves me for me, not what or who he wants me to be. Honestly, i miss a man point blank. But i'm not willing to compromise ms with lust. There's the right way to do things. I'm looking for someone i can laugh with, wrestle with and just be silly with. While being the best of friends with a bright future. Thats my only intention for being here. I'm not going to make drastic life changing moves for just anybody. I'm not looking for perfection because i won't find it. Nor am i looking for wealth, as nice as it might be, its not not a factor for choosing a mate for me. it character,integrity,kindness and respect i look for in a man. I know i can offer more than expected to a man. therefor i expect the best to walk my way. I'm a southern chef, i can cook anything great. I'm looking for a masculine man, i love facial hair, and charm of a confident man. You must be a knock out for me to turn my head. I'm a romancer and love to be treated as such. I'm looking for a man who see's marriage as Christ sees it, to be cherished and loved till death do you part. I believe in the insution of marriage, and my duties to please my husband. To forsake all others and cling only unto my husband. Through good and bad times, what ever the situation calls for. I deserve to be cherished and loved as anybody does. I believe in the vows to my husband and to god, looking for the same minded man.