I am married but totally not happy. I am 49 but refuse to act it, looking for a guy who can enjoy the little things in life. I stay married because of the paycheck and insurance. we sleep in seperate beds and have separate lives. I am looking for a guy who wants to start as friends and see what happens from there. Not looking for a commitment( I should be committed for getting married in the first place!!!!!) just a running buddy with benefits, if it happens. I really don't want a guy who has little kids that need to be watched. I am getting to find out who I am and would like to have someone to travel that road with. No Smokers , can't stand the stuff, lite drinking is okay, just not to the extreme. I get a high from waking up every morning, don't need and chemical for that feeling!!