Who am I? If I had the option, I would be the fiery red head that lights up your world ... except I've let my natural color grow back out, so my hair is brown. :-) I like to have fun. My life is complex and I have a lot of responsibility (I am a single mom to a 13 month old...I also have a 15 year old who doesn't live with me ... its a very long story, if you're the one I may tell you one day), but I think I'm good at fitting fun into everything. My friend and I have this joke going between us that we p around the bossy @$$ b!tch stick :-) so, along those lines, I made a "poster" with a she devil with big s and a pitchfork that says B.A.B. at the top. So now, we're BAB's. HA! I don't think I'm bossy, but I do have a great sense of humor and I can even laugh at myself. I am spontaneous...in every way that matters. I might decide I want to go to the zoo or I might decide I want to go to Biloxi, either way I will jump in the van (with baby boy if necessary) and just go. Being a mother doesn't tie me down. And if we ever have a moment to ourselves, it will be spent wrapped up in each other. I have a lot to offer: intelligence, compion, pion, romance, spontaneity, I think I have a good sense of humor, a good listening ear (well, two technically) :-). As far as I'm concerned, the past is the reason I am who I am and so it is important. I do draw from it from time to time. Its taught me to keep my eyes wide open, its also taught me there's no reward in being miserable. So, I try to have fun as much as possible. I can make a trip to Wal-Mart for groceries fun. :-) I may not look like a Barbie doll, but you can bet you'll get everything you're looking for and then some. What do I want? A mature man who can accept me taking care of him, but who is also willing to take care of me. Honesty ... I will tell you ANYTHING you want to know, just ask; I expect the same courtesy. Also, I want someone who will stop fishing once we're together. I am human and have feelings and will not take a backseat to chicks on the net (or anywhere else for that matter). When I'm in a relationship, the man is my world ... I want to be his world. Don't send me a message if you have someone else on the side ... I don't compete well. In fact, I'm a very sore loser. Don't message me about sex stuff ... that's not how you start a relationship. If you can handle a strong, independent, stubborn, head strong woman who isn't afraid to give her whole heart, then message me.