I have 2 boys and 2 girls...all of them are grown and out of the home now. I can not have anymore children of my own, but I welcome yours if you have any. Ultimately, I'm looking for something long term...I'm not looking for hook-ups or friends with benefits...I'm definitely not about that... I'm not planning to jump right into bed with anyone, but I'd like to get to know someone and see where it goes...what I am looking for is honesty, communication, mutual respect, loyalty, happiness, fun, silliness, spontaneity, a real, true connection....(Please, if you're married, dating or in a relationship, you're on the wrong profile... you shouldn't even be looking or thinking about other women and social sites!) I'm straight forward and honest and want the same in a friendship/relationship... If you constantly have to always be right and better than everyone else in everything... don't stop here... I'm not looking for a drama king...