I am a bright man that is alone and lonely. I need a companion, that may develop into a lover, that may develop into a life partner. I know that one has to work at relationship and I intend to with the right man. I have definite opinions which I will not force on others so long as they respect my right to believe as I do. You notice that I am an ordained Rabbi. That means for you that my house will be relatively kosher, i.e. no pork, shellfish, or forbidden fish. I love to cook and I expect my companion to eat what I cook, to thoroughly criticize it, and to tell me what they would like to eat. I like to travel. I hope my companion will travel with me. I am a top. I am not ashamed to be a top. However, when I am down, I become a bottom that needs a lot of tender attention. There are many things about myself that I can share here, but will share with prospects during dates. Do not let age be a problem. Do not let weight be a problem. Look beyond the obvious to the hidden gem.