I post the below ad for the underlying determination of finding what most of us scroll through this site to begin with. I'll use an ogy freely for I mean no disrespect, 'there are no bad drivers, just inexperienced ones', I've been an unintentional in my search for this casual relationship for I am only too comfortable with sex before friendship. But the key word here is in fact friendship. I would not uneasily give up one for the preservation of the other. And my aim is not toward degradation and disrespect when I list a preference for a well proportioned woman, between the ages of twenty and forty and easy on the eyes. But there is also a flip side to that coin in that I've no wish to be contacted by a woman who doesn't think she can do better than me. I would wish for her to be open minded about our age difference, for it is just that, a number, and nothing other. However, if we find in each other what we are looking for, I do wish we may grow into one with a realization that who we are is much more important than what we look like. Isn't that what love is after all? If it is perfection your heart desires then keep searching, I am not Him ... So, I'll try this ad again, laying on the table I am not opposed to a one-nighter in hopes of something more ... [Looking for a friend with benefits. If you require my stats I'm a white male, six foot three inch, one hundred eighty lbs and eight inch in length six inch around. I'm clean and I wish for you to be also. If you wish to respond please do so by text only, please advise you're responding to my mingle2 profile in text. If you desire a pic, sexual or otherwise you must text me and ask for it, sixoeightthreeofourtwoeighteightone, I will send you one. Sorry for the rules. I'm not some creep, just show me the respect you wish in return. We both know why we are here. I'm a non smoker and a light drinker but wouldn't ask the same, this ad is as real as La Crosse is a party town. Please be over twenty and under forty.] Again, I cannot put enough emphasis on the request you text me as a response. There are too many automated responses from women who don't exist being a complete waste of my time. If you cannot text then feel free to call, you can request my facebook page if it will put your mind at ease that I am genuine. This ad is up as long as I'm waiting.