I am a loving honest man looking to find my best friend and the love of my life. I am however in know hurry to rush into a relationship, I feel that in order to form a lasting relationship you must first become best friends. And that is what I am searching for right now, someone who would like to go to a movie or even dinner as friends and just see where that leads. I am not just saying this to get a hook up so please know this up front, nor am I looking to be a friend with benefits. I have spent the better part of my adult life either being a paycheck to someone or being just a sex toy and thats not what I am all about, so those days are over. What I do like however is the little things in life that I like to say is the actual art of making love. I enjoy cuddling, the brush of a hand on my back, an I love you that comes out of know where, a kiss on the cheek for nothing more then you wanted too, a hug from behind with a gentle squeeze while you lay your head on my back, and this kiss when you leave and the kiss when you return along with the suttle flirts that go on all day. If thats not making love thenI dont know what is. We can have sex with anyone at anytine anywhere, but to let someone know you intimately is a gift in my mind and should only be shared with someone who is your best friend and most trusted soulmate. I hope I have not sounded like a babbling fool but I want this time to be forever and not just another walk through life. If you are interested please just send me a message and I will respond the same day, and I hope we all find our best friend.